You have to also accept the times that she is going to pull away a little bit. How do you deal with that? Chasing her is probably not the right way. Pulling away yourself a little is probably a much better option. She needs to know what your needs and expectations are in order to serve you better. The general idea is to inspire your woman for the long haul. So that means that you must be able to express your needs without coming across as being needy or dependent and have her respect them. This will definitely get her juices flowing and you will see the benefit.

Conversations are the best way to gauge your woman and find out what her peak experiences are. There are certain questions that you can ask that will get people to tell you what’s the best and worst things that have ever happened to them. A typical example would be to ask whether or not they have ever been on a vacation. If so, what was so good about it? Inevitably, personal experiences are going to be shared with you and you will have the opportunity to gain some insight. Get her to talk about her feelings and you would have won the battle.

Ultimately, what you want is to be able to develop a shared experience. You want to be able to locate the open loops and use those as your entry into her personal space. If you are successful in achieving all the things that were discussed in this article, then you would have successful positioned yourself for great things. From there things can only get better.